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			<title>What a long strange trip its been part II: Tango</title>
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			<description><![CDATA[Having opted to stay in NY and commute every day to Red Bank, I chose to make the most of my stay in the city. Tango was, of course, no small factor in the decision making process. In NY I got to dance with some of my best friends who live there and experience a little more of the NY tango scene. Unfortunately, apart from seeing and dancing with my friends, the scene did very little for me, a testimony, I&#039;m sure, to how strong a scene is alive and well in BsAs. I tried very hard to see it from some objective place. And, by no means, do I think I know all about the NY tango scene. But, it just seemed so very far from what had become my reality and I became even more acutely aware of how unsatisfied I will be living anywhere else in the world, with regards to Tango. I am convinced, now more than ever it does not get any better than it does in BsAs.<br />On july 11th I set off for Sitges, Spain which is a Tango mecca for any serious Tanguero(a) with the means to get there. A beautiful spot, just off the coast of Spain and a 30 minute train ride from Barcelona. Unfortunately my arrival in that fair city was far from ideal as I had run into friends from Europe, whom I&#039;d met in BsAs ,on the train and in a painful moment of distraction, my purse was stolen away by rogue thieves going about their daily business of marring the lives of unsuspecting tourists bent on enjoying a brief moment in an exotic locale. I should know better. It is not the first time, though perhaps the absolute most damaging. They must have high-5&#039;d each other all the way to the pub as my purse contained so many goodies, it would take weeks to fully even remember what was inside: Among their highlights, my digital camera, my IPOD, and all of my costume jewelry. Whether they cared about my passport is hard to say. But I spent the next day at the American Embassy getting a new one. Christ!<br />Fortunately for me, I had at least 2 good friends in Sitges who acted as my flotation device (Thank you Jorge, Anso and Mariana) in the mean time. As a result I was able to&quot; keep on Tangoin&#039; on &quot;and temporarily banish my worrisome thoughts to my subconscious mind where they lurked nonetheless, and not without reason. The weather was absolutely lovely and the view from my window almost flawless. This was, however, almost not the case, as the guys at the counter were reluctant to let me check in without..my passport....Hmm...I am not generally a person who takes pleasure in making a huge scene, though I am not above it when warranted. This was one of those moments. I was hot, sweaty, jetlagged, underslept, had just carried a duffle weighing 15 kilos over my shoulder for 6 blocks in 95 degree heat and just had EVERYTHING stolen on the train! I was already ready to kick, scream and weep relentlessly, (though preferably in private, on my own bed after a cold shower) You&#039;ve GOT TO BE FUCKING KIDDING ME!! NO I DON&#039;T HAVE MY FUCKING PASSPORT AND ARE YOU REALLY TELLING ME YOU&#039;RE NOT GOING TO LET ME CHECK IN??? To say I was livid was an understatement. The only time I&#039;ve been more angry was when I went to file a police report in Paris for a stolen backpack (don&#039;t say it) and they acted as though I was the thief. This time I didn&#039;t even try to speak Spanish, they KNEW what I was saying in very plain LOUD English. &quot;okayokayokayokayokayokay!&quot; That night I spent the evening in a double where the AC was not working. The next day I was moved to a lovely single with a view of the ocean. And to their credit, the same guys that almost reduced me to emotional drivel, went above and beyond the call of duty for the entire rest of my stay. Sometimes, rules are meant to be broken. I agreed to take the heat if the police came calling. <br />The &quot;official&quot; festival itself left a little to be desired though it was lovely dancing outside, the space itself was beautiful and the floor was not too overly crowded. The biggest complaint from me and the others around me was that the music was terribly uninspiring. Lawerence Welk goes Tango. But, I expect the older crowd, was into it. The main attraction was the late night milonga on the boardwalk in front of my hotel which started at 3AM and went until 8 or 9 in the morning. This is the unofficial part of the festival but without question the coolest. As usual the men outnumbered the women and in my opinion had overly delusional ideas about their own Tango skills. I believe this comes from always having the upper hand with sheer regards to numbers. Still, overall, the level of the dancers, both men and women was high by, I think, anybody&#039;s standards. The longer you hung out, the more attrition there was and the chances of dancing with somebody you really wanted to dance with got somewhat higher with every sultry hour. It was hot and only got hotter as the breeze died and the sun started to rise. By 9AM we were all toast and providing a curious facet to the early morning jogger&#039;s routine. People dancing Tango by the seaside at 4 AM may be an intersting site to behold to those ambling towards home after a night at the clubs, but the same site while the street cleaners are busy at work and people are out giving their dogs a walk and getting in their early morning exercise probably just drives home the idea that we&#039;re bloody crazy!<br />Around 8 or 9 AM those still left standing would perhaps take a quick dip in the ocean and/or just head over to the restaurant at the hotel for a good breakfast buffet which made for a really nice way of er..starting(?) the day. After that, we were done. 5 or 6 hours of sleep was probably the norm for this festival (not too different from most others) but there was also no other really feasible naptime either . And with the sun and the ocean in the mix, you can imagine how tiring it was. Yet somehow, we managed. (LOL) I mean, really.. this was HARD WORK! (don&#039;t laugh!) Generally speaking, everybody would start appearing on the beach sometime after 3PM. Dosing, dipping, working on a fabulous &quot;all around&quot; tan, if you know what I mean. (Poor guys, what they had to endure). <br />At 7PM everybody would start making their way toward San Sebastian beach (about a 10 min. walk along the boardwalk) to the &quot;milonga on the beach??&quot; and there everybody tried to dance in the sand and surf. The first day, I thought, no way, this is killing my knees, I&#039;ll never make it thru the week, but a better leader made all the difference. At 9:30 or 10:00 you raced back to shower, if you had time, and then met people for dinner. Very fun. An annual potluck dinner party thrown somewhere in the middle of the week made for a really nice affair. <br />I chanced to meet an Italian guy at that particular party who could be described as nothing short of a &quot;character&quot;. Somewhat chatty, he had a large dolphin (?) helium filled balloon tied to his wrist throughout much of the festival. It seems he had gotten lost from his group at some other festival and his friends had very much feared he&#039;d been kidnapped. Really! And they had been VERY angry with him for getting lost. This was his penance, though I think it might have been self-imposed. A very sweet, and unusual (perhaps eccentric) person. Later that night he turned rather abruptly around and finding me standing behind him whisked me onto the boardwalk without so much as a&quot; bailamos?&quot;.., I was elated to find he was a really really fabulous and creative dancer. Really. A real pleasure. Alas, it was our only dance as he was leaving the next afternoon. La prossima!! ]]></description>
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			<author>Laura Pellegrino</author>
			<pubDate>Sat, 05 Aug 2006 18:13:40 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title>What a long strange trip its been part I:Recording</title>
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			<description><![CDATA[On wed. of the this week I returned home to Buenos Aires after 5 weeks of trans-continental travel. My head is still spinning from such a wide range of experiences that at least more than once I asked myself during the tripf if I had bitten off just a wee bit too much for one 5 week trip. Its not that I was experiencing such diverse and extraordinary cultures,(Its not like I was in the Congo one week and Morroco the next), however, my chosen activites at each local ensured I was deeply entrenched in all of my personal and sometimes varied interests. Quite simply, I got to delve into and ALL facets of Laura Pellegrino&#039;s personality in one short trip spanning two continents. <br />I left Buenos Aires for New York on June 24th where I would spend 2 and 1/2 weeks finishing up my vocals for my upcoming record which is set to be done by the end of Aug. After much contemplating, I chose to stay with my cousin on the Upper West side of Manhattan, who had generously offered to share his studio apartment with me. All things considered, it was probably the best trip to NY ever for me, despite my having to shuttle to Red Bank, New Jersey (home to Springsteen ) every day to record. The hour and 15 minute trip left me some quiet moments to read, meditate, get focused, whatever. And I tried to make good use of the downtime. <br />The recording process probably went better than either Alex or I expected. Alex had hoped for us to get two songs done per day but was banking on, I believe, it being a slightly arduous process. However, he was surprised to find that my earlier takes are almost always stronger than anything I do later. (something I&#039;m fully aware of but about which Alex remained skeptical, as it is just not the norm.) Whether its due to live playing experience, where YOU ONLY GET ONE CHANCE to get it right, or because I just get bloody board and lose the passion for what I&#039;m singing after many takes, I don&#039;t know, but this was our reality, thankfully. We made good time and only had one day where we were probably both a little frustrated, albeit for somewhat different reasons. One of the songs on the album, I wrote mostly in Spanish and I was very uptight about the intonation among other things. It was also perhaps the most challenging song on the record for me to sing, melodically speaking. After spending the better part of one day laboring over it, neither of us felt terribly optimistic. That night Alex spent several hours editing to try to make it right, but as you can imagine , I was REALLY uncomfortable with this. We all know editing is an art in and of itself and A TON of editing goes into virtually every hit record (Bob Dylan excepted) but I, personally, was just not comfortable with this. I mean, ideally you want as true a performance as you can get BEFORE you start editing. When we came back the next day, Alex had masterfully pieced together a take, but it still felt lifeless to me. I told him I wanted to do it all over. And this may have been the only point in the whole session where we both were clearly agitated. Not wanting to fight about it I threw down the gauntlet and told him I wanted 30 minutes to get it right. ( I truly felt I could) and if I didn&#039;t get it, I didn&#039;t get it... I got it. Without question, we both knew I got it and the result was that we both walked away relieved and excited about a song that now sounded really really good! YEAAA!]]></description>
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			<author>Laura Pellegrino</author>
			<pubDate>Sat, 05 Aug 2006 16:24:34 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title>Recording in the States and a trip to Spain!</title>
			<link>http://www.laurapellegrino.com/blog/index.php?entry=entry060622-234702</link>
			<description><![CDATA[This week as I was knocking myself out at Spin class, (yes, they&#039;ve got&#039;em here) I noticed this sharp pain in my back and neck. It took me a minute to realize, it was just stress related. However, it was a real shock when I realized what it was as it has been so ABSENT since I got here. This Sat. I will be leaving the country for the first time since coming here in January.(Urugay excluded).In fact, just the IDEA of the States is enough to make my back hurt. And although I am looking forward to the trip, which will include recording in NY/NJ a tango festival on the Beaches of Sitges, Spain (right outside of Barcelona) and a stay with Martin in Mallorca, I am anxious about leaving the country. This may be the only place I&#039;ve ever lived that I&#039;m not dying to leave within 6 months of arriving, if only for a trip. The strange thing is that nothing around here really really changes. Its more like an ebb and flow of people coming and going. Very transient with all of the tourists and dancers from here doing the same as they leave for months at a time to teach or dance elsewhere. Still, I feel like I might miss something, though I couldn&#039;t say what. Maybe I&#039;m afraid they&#039;ll think I&#039;m just gone like all the others. Maybe I&#039;m afraid they won&#039;t miss me at all? Maybe I&#039;m afraid all my new-found killer dance partners will find somebody else they like dancing with better? LOL! Maybe I DO need a break, and .. a Starbucks caramel Frappucino after all.]]></description>
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			<author>Laura Pellegrino</author>
			<pubDate>Fri, 23 Jun 2006 04:47:02 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title>Coda: Regarding insight into a man&#039;s mind</title>
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			<description><![CDATA[So a few weeks back ( or maybe only last week, I just don&#039;t remember) I wrote about a guy who I loved dancing with who after one really great day of dancing and three more of NOT dancing, told me he&quot; wanted to wait to ask me to dance again until he had FORGOTTEN how good it was&quot; so that he wouldn&#039;t have &quot;expectations&quot;. He&#039;s a curious character. He likes to go several days in between dances and then tells me how great it is dancing with me. The other night I, once again, expressed disbelief and he told me he thought I was disputing his claim only to hear him say it again. I said, &quot; NO, I&#039;m disputing it because you go DAYS without asking me to DANCE?!&quot; He confessed that he knows he will get to dance with me a bunch in Sitges, in a few weeks. I&#039;m thinking, maybe....if you don&#039;t piss me off too much before we even get there. Sheesh! I wonder if I would be less cynical playing music again?? LOL!]]></description>
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			<author>Laura Pellegrino</author>
			<pubDate>Fri, 23 Jun 2006 04:27:17 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title>The Practica finale finally!</title>
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			<description><![CDATA[Tonight I told Mario, the main organizer for the milonga that I didn&#039;t plan to resume DJ&#039;ing upon my return from my trip in August. For the last few months things have been brewing that just finally resulted in it not being any fun to do the &quot;thang&quot; anymore. Its amazing how one pain-in-the-ass %%^$$%^% guy can really be a bore. I have a lot or respect for Mario and Eugenia. However, one of my fellow organizers is a patronizing, womanizing ( and I never use that word) two-timing, slippery, manipulative and annoying piece of work who desperately wants my job as DJ and is willing to do almost any crummy thing to get it. Well, tonight I decided, he wins. I just don&#039;t want the headache, the harrassing phone calls, or anything else even closely related. Several people have expressed a desire for me to DJ in another location with more alternative music anyway. We&#039;ll see. It was fun for a while to be a part of that group and help organize but maybe I just wanna show up and dance! I felt better almost immediately. Lately it was feeling like a war of attrition! I guess its just not high enough on my priority list to warrant the headache. Mario made me promise to reconsider after I return and have had a break but ... I think I&#039;m over it! ]]></description>
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			<author>Laura Pellegrino</author>
			<pubDate>Fri, 23 Jun 2006 04:22:00 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title>change, and we&#039;re not talking social reform</title>
			<link>http://www.laurapellegrino.com/blog/index.php?entry=entry060616-135832</link>
			<description><![CDATA[Change is a real issue here in Argentina. No, not political change or social reform, we&#039;re talking plata, money, or moneda, even centavos. Nobody in this city wants to keep change on hand or even give it up if thy&#039;ve got it. There&#039;s even an ad campaign telling people to spend if for christ&#039;s sake. For example, the taxi driver would rather curse you and take LESS money than the meter says, rather than give you any friggin&#039; change. Its weird. Buisnesses are often NOT prepared to give it up either. Often they&#039;d rather not have you buy something. What the !@##$%% is that all about? There&#039;s a Pharmacity (that&#039;s a chain drug store) that I&#039;ve quit going to because they never seem able to give you any change. More than a few times I have opted to not go out for the evening because it was too late for the subte (metro), to cold or rainy to wait for the bus and though I had money, I knew I couldn&#039;t get a taxi driver to break a 50 Peso note for me. My friend &quot;P&quot; (who is loaded) walked all the home, some 30 odd blocks at 5 AM, to Recoletta one night because he also knew he couldn&#039;t find a taxi driver to break a 50, nevermind a 100. I had a Taxi driver the other night that couldn&#039;t give me change on a 10! That&#039;s just plain old unpreparedness. It&#039;s crazy. Do ya wanna make living or what? There are a few businesses that consistently have change on hand and I make it a priority to shop there for that reason. Incidentally, same as in the states, one of them is an Asian-immigrant owned grocery store right by my house. AND, they&#039;re open a LOT! ]]></description>
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			<author>Laura Pellegrino</author>
			<pubDate>Fri, 16 Jun 2006 18:58:32 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title>World Cup</title>
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			<description><![CDATA[You know you&#039;re in Argentina when you&#039;ve been out dancing Tango until 5 in the morning and you set your alarm in time to roll over click on the remote and watch the &quot;match&quot; at 10AM. To be fair, it IS the World Cup. However, I can&#039;t remember the last time I made the effort to go to a Super Bowl party. Obviously I am NOT a die hard sports fan of any kind, though I did play soccer in junior-high which gives me a slightly bigger appreciation for that game. But, by and large, &quot;sports fans&quot; REALLY annoy me. People who are that fanatical about watching somebody else do something really confound me. And I don&#039;t drink beer, so... In college I was fortunate enough to watch Barry Sanders plow through whatever offensive or defensive line we were decimating before he want on to get signed by the Detroit Lions and to date, that still stands as the most exciting sports I&#039;ve ever watched. My other problem is that I hate to see anybody lose.... You can understand my problem right? I mean, real sports fans LOVE to see their opponent annihilated, humiliated, eviscerated in every imaginable way. You know, just like in ancient Rome ! In fact American footbal almost always makes me think of the Coliseum. So much gear. Huge huge 280lbs worth of pummeling. Its no wonder that so many players leave the field on a stretcher. I know I know, SOMEBODY HAS to lose. Okay, so I like to at least see a fair fight. However much I may want a team to win, I can&#039;t stand to see a slaughter. At some place in the point spread I cannot help but start rooting for the underdog. Right now the underdog is the goalie for Serbia/Montenegro who is taking a severe ass kicking and will probably be out of endorsements after today&#039;s game. Argentina has just butchered their opponents 6-0. The upside of a slaughter is that the coach can often put somebody in the game that maybe doesn&#039;t get a chance to play as often, which may have just occured though I&#039;m not positive. A player on the sidelines (Messi) throughout most of the game got to score the final goal (I think...I blinked) just seconds before time ran out. Firecrackers, car horns, gunshots and general mayhem ensuing. What can you say...sportsfans? I will probably have a crick in my neck due to writing this while simultaneously watching the game. Almost an impossible feat. One of the many differences between American football and what the rest of the world terms as football is that it moves so much faster. You really can&#039;t afford to go the the &#039;loo&quot; or you might actually miss something. Time outs are shorter. There&#039;s no time to go to the loo, grab a cerveza and call your Mom all the while waiting for the team to make it to the 10 yard line. Even writing this I risk missing the crucial pass that will set up the next goal. Its not even like basketball, which is the other extreme and such a high scoring game that its no big deal if you miss a goal, there could be 75 more that game. Now I know it sounds like I might actually WATCH sports but I REALLY don&#039;t. In the states, I marvel at the amount of information, names, teams, etc that I have in my head considering I only might see something on TV if its on in a house I&#039;m visiting and I don&#039;t want to be rude. I have been to a few professional baseball games and did make it a point to watch the Red Sox win their first World Series since 1910. They hadn&#039;t won since just before my Grand Father was born and he took me to Fenway Park when I was 6 or so. After the game last year I called him to chat and had him explain &quot; the curse of the baby&quot; . Oh! It is a testimony to the bloody marketing and popularity and omnipresence of sports that I know these things. And if you really don&#039;t believe me, there&#039;s this: for me the best part about watching soccer vs. American football is...the guys are just hotter! ]]></description>
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			<author>Laura Pellegrino</author>
			<pubDate>Fri, 16 Jun 2006 13:40:07 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title>Insight into a man&#039;s mind..or absolute rubbish?</title>
			<link>http://www.laurapellegrino.com/blog/index.php?entry=entry060607-091744</link>
			<description><![CDATA[Now I&#039;ve heard them all. This last week, (on a Sat afternoon), I danced with a new guy. Immediate connection. Perfectly compatible body type, size, embrace, vocabulary, you name it. One of the 2 or 3 best connections to date, anywhere. Felt great from the word, &quot;Go!&quot;At the end of the first song we both step back and we&#039;re both like wow!, cool !and he says, &quot; You dance GREAT!&quot;, and I&#039;m like &quot;no You dance GREAT!&quot;, Its really good. So we dance more that evening at Malcolm and La Viruta. The next night ,on Sunday night, I see him just as he&#039;s putting on his coat to leave. On Monday, at Malcolm I ask him if he&#039;s going to Canning afterwards and he says he doesn&#039;t know, but he does end up going. On neither of these 2 nights does he ask me to dance. He dances with a very unmade blase looking woman wearing dumpy blue jeans, who doesn&#039;t appear to be an amazing dancer either, for most of the night. At Canning he hangs out across the room appearing to be on the make with any one of several woman and still does not ask me to dance. I&#039;m like, whatever, dude. I KNOW I&#039;m not crazy, that this was not one-sided. I figure he&#039;s fucking with me now and/or he&#039;s seriously trying to get laid by one of these chicks . Fair enough. So on Tuesday at the practica, more of the same. At this point I don&#039;t know what to think.I start to doubt my senses, which I have a lot of faith in, or wonder if I weirded him out on some other personal level. But at the end of the practica, a lot of folks are going to get a bite and we&#039;re all standing around changing shoes, and shooting the shit. He walks up behind me, real familar and cozy and asks me something like &quot; Che pasa?&quot; I do not turn around to really face him but I say, &quot;I don&#039;t know, che pasa contigo?&quot; Over my shoulder I tell him I feel like we had a one night stand and now he&#039;s not talking to me. He thinks that is hilarious and then grabs my hand and starts talking about expectations. And at first I think he means, like I have some sort of &quot;expectations&quot;, you know like men in the states are so weirded out by women with &quot;EXPECTATIONS!&quot; but No! He says , you know sometimes when you dance with someone and its really great and then you EXPECT that it will be the same the next time and most of the time it&#039;s not. He said he was going to wait until he&#039;d almost forgotten how good it was dancing with me to ask me again.....hmmmmm. I KNOW it was really good for both of us (LOL) but this SOUNDS like absolute garbage. I walked away thinking, does he approach sex the same way.?And if so, do some men really think this way? I mean, I do understand what he&#039;s saying, but I&#039;m such a hedonist. When I do something I like a lot, I wanna do it again and again and again. Lo mas pronto possible baby! ]]></description>
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			<author>Laura Pellegrino</author>
			<pubDate>Wed, 07 Jun 2006 14:17:44 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title>Its a Party!</title>
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			<description><![CDATA[Friday night was the combination birthday and going away party for Maria and Paci who have been visiting here from Finland for several months. The party was at their place in San Telmo and it was a really nice scene. Maybe 50 people filtered in and out through the course of the evening. Very cool vibe. good food, good conversation etc., I spent the bulk of the evening talking with Benjamin whom I met almost immediately after walking in. He&#039;s a physicist working on his P.H.D. or the French equivelent. Though he freely admits, Tango has taken hold of his mind and will not let go. We talked at length about the number of foreigners so engrossed with Tango that they&#039;ve left their jobs, homes, friends. etc., to come here and do what we&#039;re doing. We laughed at how many of us start out with,. &quot; Well I just quit my job and...&quot; The fact that I sold my house to come here seems to leave the Argentines, themselves, pretty speechless, but many of the other foreigners are pretty nonplussed. I think many of them are thinking about it on some level. At some point later in the evening Paci came asked if I would like to play a few songs. It seems a jam session had begun in the living room. I was very flattered since he&#039;s never heard me and I suppose it must have come up in passing at some point in our conversation and he just hung onto the info. Once again the audience here was awesome. In fact everybody came in and sat on floor and got really quiet and attentive as soon as I started to play. Argentina, or Buenos Aires rather, is a city that truly does appreciate its music and anybody who plays it well gets a lot of respect which is very very nice. And perhaps the fact that I am playing something other than Tango makes what I do even a little more of an anomaly. People are really into it. I think Austin is the only other city I&#039;ve lived in that shows its genuine respect for its players to such a degree. This was my first opportunity to play for my Tango peers and that was very very cool. At 4 AM the last of us dribbled out into the rain and hailed a couple of Taxi&#039;s to catch the last few Tandas at Canning. After that it was coffee, more conversation and early morning pizza. I think I was finally tucked in around 8:00 AM. Ouch! ]]></description>
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			<author>Laura Pellegrino</author>
			<pubDate>Sun, 04 Jun 2006 16:31:10 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title>Some kinda satisfaction!</title>
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			<description><![CDATA[This last month has been some kind of watershed for me. I have been here since January and danced with a lot of people of varying degrees of ability only a very very few which have been substandard, (and you definitely remember who they are as to avoid that kind of train wreck again). However, seemingly overnight, (actually one week,) I acquired 3 new high level, regular dancing partners. YEEAAAA! I felt a little like the 101st monkey .It was like some collective unconscious finally overcame a number of leaders and finally I was in the game. I have spent much of the last 5 months working on my close embrace while many of the higher level skills I had in open embrace languished. Its not that there are no leaders here to lead them but it really does take a while to get in the loop. Let&#039;s face it there are a lot of good followers here. One of my new partners with whom I&#039;m practicing with a lot outside of the milongas asked me how long I&#039;d been here. When I told him since Jan. his eyes got big. Then he says, &quot;Have you been coming to Malcolm on Mondays all this time?&quot; And I was like, yea. Every monday. He shook his head and couldn&#039;t believe he&#039;d never seen me. The bottom line is if you have nobody to dance with that can really help you show what you can do, you might as well be invisible to some people. There are a LOT of good people to watch. From my perspective, its fine though. However long it takes is however long it takes. And honestly my close embrace,..&quot;embrace&quot;, needed tending to anyway. That was one of my goals in coming here. And it is questionable how much attention it would have gotten in any other scenario. Besides, it is extremely satisfying to dance with somebody really good, somebody you&#039;ve wanted to dance with for a while, and surprise and them. Sigh. ]]></description>
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			<author>Laura Pellegrino</author>
			<pubDate>Sun, 04 Jun 2006 15:57:35 GMT</pubDate>
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